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Im an owner/stylist...Im a mother and a grandmother...Im calm...Im funny....I love to learn....here is something for us all to ponder...
Trust and respect have been so long lost that you spend more time testing one another, making each other prove yourselves, finding reasons to doubt each other, and vying for control than you do creating and enjoying your love relationships. And these things you call love relationships are often little more than addictive pain patterns being acted out. Love does not need to possess, control, degrade, withhold, prove anything, distrust, or conquer. Love simply loves. It flows. It is uninhibited, uncontrived, natural, innocent, and spontaneous. And while discernment is needed in the selection of a partner, it need not prohibit you from loving everyone. Did you know that humans are terrified of feeling the totality of unconditional love? You have been taught to restrain yourselves lest you make a fool of yourselves. You have been taught that it is impossible to love fully without hurting if the other person does not return your love and promise to stay forever. Without 100 percent guarantee that you will not "lose, " you hold back a little or a lot. It does not really matter how much. The point is that the flow has been dammed and therefore controlled.

What if love were only possible by forfeiting all guarantees? What if love could only exist in the presence of surrender? What if there were no such thing as loss, only change? What if you had to let go before the other person did without knowing whether he or she will ever let go or not? You would risk disappointment; but that is all. If you have healthy self-esteem and self-love the person you love cannot devastate or humiliate you. He or she cannot make you feel unworthy; only you can! The object of love is not to win someone over, break through their barriers, make them need or desire you, or make sure you don't lose. The object of love is to love, to cherish, to honor, to adore, to respect, to never harm, to appreciate and never depreciate another. You can even love without objectification. This is the nature of your true being, your soul, your spirit. To experience love for no apparent reason and for no ulterior motive is a great sign that you are nearing completion of your trials and karmic pain. It is the way home to your true self. In the meantime, allowing yourself to objectify love is a step in the right direction. To fill your life with friends and/or a partner who naturally inspire you to love is a wonderful thing.

Leo

Average

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Brown

African American, Asian, Indian, Native American, Caucasian, Other

Never Married

Yes - At Home

No

Smile

Visible Tattoo

Blonde

Cat, Dog

Yes

Some College

Self-employed

Other

owner/stylist

With Kid(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Internet, Family, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Shopping

Going Shopping, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum

A nice place where we can talk and have good food and drink...

Rowing

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Week

Liberal

Is to be a wife, own a Tea Cafe, live a healthy happy lifestyle.

Friendly

Documentaries, Reality Shows

Documentary

Country, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk

Ancient, Biography, Fantasy, History, Instructional, Nature, Science

Shopping, learning something new.

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Power, Thoughtfullness

A real person, who has a real agenda, one who can be honest about what they want...good, bad, or ugly....just be up front with who and what you are.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed