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Im an owner/stylist...Im a mother and a grandmother...Im calm...Im funny....I love to learn....here is something for us all to ponder...
Trust and respect have been so long lost that you spend more time testing one another, making each other prove yourselves, finding reasons to doubt each other, and vying for control than you do creating and enjoying your love relationships. And these things you call love relationships are often little more than addictive pain patterns being acted out. Love does not need to possess, control, degrade, withhold, prove anything, distrust, or conquer. Love simply loves. It flows. It is uninhibited, uncontrived, natural, innocent, and spontaneous. And while discernment is needed in the selection of a partner, it need not prohibit you from loving everyone. Did you know that humans are terrified of feeling the totality of unconditional love? You have been taught to restrain yourselves lest you make a fool of yourselves. You have been taught that it is impossible to love fully without hurting if the other person does not return your love and promise to stay forever. Without 100 percent guarantee that you will not "lose, " you hold back a little or a lot. It does not really matter how much. The point is that the flow has been dammed and therefore controlled.

What if love were only possible by forfeiting all guarantees? What if love could only exist in the presence of surrender? What if there were no such thing as loss, only change? What if you had to let go before the other person did without knowing whether he or she will ever let go or not? You would risk disappointment; but that is all. If you have healthy self-esteem and self-love the person you love cannot devastate or humiliate you. He or she cannot make you feel unworthy; only you can! The object of love is not to win someone over, break through their barriers, make them need or desire you, or make sure you don't lose. The object of love is to love, to cherish, to honor, to adore, to respect, to never harm, to appreciate and never depreciate another. You can even love without objectification. This is the nature of your true being, your soul, your spirit. To experience love for no apparent reason and for no ulterior motive is a great sign that you are nearing completion of your trials and karmic pain. It is the way home to your true self. In the meantime, allowing yourself to objectify love is a step in the right direction. To fill your life with friends and/or a partner who naturally inspire you to love is a wonderful thing.

Leo

Gennemsnitlig

170 cm

Brun

Afroamerikansk, Asiatisk, Indisk, Indfødt amerikansk, Kaukasisk, Andet

Aldrig gift

Ja - hjemme

Nej

Smil

Synlig tatovering

Blond

Kat, Hund

Ja

Lidt af universitetet

Selvstændig

Andet

owner/stylist

Med børn

Alt er roligt

Nej

Ja - til fester

Stille type

Reserveret

Motion, Kunst og håndværk, Læsning, Læring, Internet, Familie, Religion / Spiritualitet, Rejser, Madlavning, Havearbejde, Frivilligt, Shopping

Shoppe, Prøve noget nyt, Afslappende, Læse en bog, Spille computerspil, Gå på museum

A nice place where we can talk and have good food and drink...

Rowing

Venlig

Spirituel, men ikke religiøs

En gang om ugen

Is to be a wife, own a Tea Cafe, live a healthy happy lifestyle.

Venlig

Dokumentarer, Reality Shows

Dokumentar

Land, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk

Gammelt, Biografi, Fantasy, Historie, Gør-det-selv, Natur, Videnskab

Shopping, learning something new.

Intelligens, Humor, Dygtighed, Følsomhed, Skaldethed, Penge, Magt, Omtanke

A real person, who has a real agenda, one who can be honest about what they want...good, bad, or ugly....just be up front with who and what you are.

Internetven, Ven, Dato, Intim, Forpligtet