I am a 35 year old woman who has had a hard time with love. I graduated from Cal Berkeley in 2000 on a track and field scholarship. I lived in New Mexico as a Track Coach at UNM and a fitness instructor for 10 years before I made my move out to Germany. I have lived here for 2 years now as a sports instructor at an international school.
Having the ability to go where I want and do what I want (and to be able to afford it) has been something I have worked very hard for. It seems that my luck in love is that I always find the guy who needs to borrow a few bucks, or owes tons of money to an ex for a kid and can't travel with me, or even go out to a nice dinner. I'm not looking for a millionaire, just someone who can afford to do things with me in my life without causing me to go into debt.

Widder