Hi! My name is Jess and I am an enigma lol. I am very traditional; I love a good routine but at the same time I like to break out of the box and do something extreme and highly spontaneous.

I'm not really into people who suffocate me and pressure me and are cling ons, I love my life and I am not looking for someone to make me whole so if I just described you....uhhh maybe I can help you with your little problem?

I am looking for someone to start anything from a friendship to a long term relationship with. I have finally reached that point in my life where I am happy with myself and being alone and I feel that when you are comfortable being by yourself that is when your finally ready to make someone elses life better and add something to your own.

I feel like if you want a relationship you should not be looking for a void to fill but someone to compliment your already great life.

That being said I know what I want, which can be many things, even moreso I know what I don't want.
I am not looking for drama or games. I prefer a man who has no children but it is not absolutely nessesary criteria.

I am very ambitious and I am looking for someone who is also ambitious.

I will admit again I would prefer an ambitious man, or someone who knows what he wants and works his butt off to get it.
As hard as I work; I like to play even harder.
I also feel like I need a balance in my life and I am looking for someone to compliment my personality so although our interests should be common, where my personality lacks (yes I'm not perfect) his should have strength.

For example, I am impatient and can become uptight and need to be reminded to relax every once in awhile.
At the same time I am a kid at heart who loves suprises, roller coasters, the circus and laughing etc.
On the other hand I love hosting parties, sipping wine and talking to interesting people, especially at a book party I hold every month.
I also love quiet nights in just sitting by the fire and talking with the one I like.
I am also very competitive and love other people who are competitive as well, I love snowboarding, enjoy fishing and even derby's, dirt biking and I'll try anything that gets my adrenaline running!

Looks are not important to me, neither is age, but a man that can stand by my side, knows what he wants and is willing to push me to be a better person, that is essential.
At the very least, I'm looking for a fun, fantastic time!
*Warning* I would like to disclose I am very passionate, its not a good thing, when I'm happy I'm pretty happy and when I'm sad I'm really sad, when I am funnyI am darn funny and well you don't want to make me mad hahaha so if you think you can handle me I dare you to write at your own risk............HAHAHA JOKE..........


P.S.
IF YOU JUST WRITE HEY WHATS UP, I PROBABLY WILL NOT RESPOND, DON'T BE OFFENDED BUT IT SHOWS YOUR LACK OF INTREST AND YOU PROBABLY WERE NOT THAT INTERESTED IN ME ANYWAY :P

Steenbok