SWM, with not a lot of baggage, fit body, expressive mind, glass half full attitude and forward vision. I try to show respect for, and treat all people well. I like to go out and do things, or stay in like rent a movie. A balance is good. I'm down for most things. I've lived up here for a while but have not seen all of this state, the surrounding mountain states, and a lot of Washington and Oregon; therefore, want to do some road trips and getaways with friends and or someone special when that happens and warmer weather happens.

I've been going to some Christmas parties with certain "social" or "activity" groups, but am not finding any women there I'm interested in or attracted to. Certainly there will be more attractive women downtown, at the bars and clubs, etc - but that's not something I'm regularly into, and really is not a good bet to meet somebody anyway. It's something I would do when I'm already with somebody, or with a group of people. That does put some expectation on online dating to produce the goods. One guy at a "social" party I was at (and left early) told me even if no women I'm interested in, that I might meet people in general that know someone. So that did get me to acknowledge that networking, just as it's the effective thing to do in business, might bring a potential mate to me as well - and if nothing else make some cool new friends in the process...Still, I can only take so much of the "social club" type of parties.

I have no unrealistic expectations of others. That's different than not trusting people. Need to take a little risk to get some reward. I'm also pretty damn honest and don't know if that's normal in "the game". I'm a pretty casual guy and down to earth. Rather than brag or make claims, I hope to continually acquire and demonstrate class and subtlety in my own behavior. My achievements, how I solve problems, and handle struggles, would unfold gradually to my future partner and she'll hopefully see the attractive qualities of confidence, competence, and strength.

Which brings me to what I'm looking for an -attractive, athletic, intelligent and exciting woman with a good sense of humor, who isn't crazy, and someone who isn't afraid to hold on loosely, isn't afraid it's going to slip away. In other words, wants something, and trusts, and is someone I can trust. Simply put someone I feel chemistry with, and click with. Someone who finds me special in return.

Aquarius

Athletic

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Green

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Not Sure

Legs

Black

Yes

College Degree

Unemployed

Sales / Marketing

Under $100,000USD/yr

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Observant, Friendly, Outgoing, Dark

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Family, Cars, Camping, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I don't know. Anywhere we can talk, so not a movie and not a loud nightclub or bar. Maybe a lounge or coffee house.

Snow shoeing, snow boarding, using a GPS and map to do backcountry hikes, then camp. Rent a yurt.
A Trip to the south of France, in September, when most of Europe is back from vacation and there are perfect surfing waves during the day, and incredible nightlife.... with somebody special.

A Trip to Australia, New Zealand, Thailand, Greece. A trip to Ireland, and see U2 play over there, hang out in a pub with old cobblestone streets, drink dark beer and make friends with the locals! Scotland, Whales.

Friendly, Cool

Jewish

Never

Middle Of The Road

Build my career (if I still can). Have a great, meaningful career that doesn't even feel like work, own a home in the foothills of Boise and a 2nd home on the beach in south Orange County, Ca. Drive a BMX and an SUV. Marry someone I am in love with and either have a child, or the opportunity to be a wonderful Father figure/Father, to her child/children. Be able to live in S. California in the winter. Have more time to become involved in charitable work, and be able to serve on the board of juvenile diabetes foundation with my friends Ray and Judy Brandt of Newport Beach, Ca.
Be able to take my wife (and her child/children) on a very nice trip each year, and to several camping trips and weekend getaways each year, and of course, to the beach in winter!

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

News, Documentaries

Action, Comedy, Documentary, Animation, Thriller

Rap, Rock, Industrial, New age, Reggae

Anthology, Classic, Fiction, History, Horror, Instructional, Philosophy, Science, Sports

1. Going out to a great dinner and than an awesome movie with someone you're really into-going home and making love. What, you asked?
2. Doing a long mountain bike ride in the forest, with incredible climbs and views, technical sections, a great clearing up high to eat lunch with good friends. The post ride endorphin high that comes from that
3. Going out downtown to dance to hip, danceable music-industrial, electronica, some rap, whatever has a great rhythm and beat
4. Weekend getaways exploring, that are enriching culturally/outdoors/recreationally/artistically... and that bring two people even closer together
5. Would be travel

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Well, I'm attracted to her looks first, her face, her height/weight proportion, color of her hair and eyes, her expression, and then how she talks, how she uses language, her attitude, her beliefs, and then how nice she is, how genuine and real and how she treats me.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed